Dateline Pickering Islamic Centre, July 19, 2024.
The Digital Divide: Technology’s Grip on Our Lives

By Javed Akbar
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In today's Friday Khutba, Mufti Abdul Mannan delivered a poignant reminder, a stirring message of the far-reaching effects of internet and social media - such as Facebook, instagram, X (Twitter), Tik Tok, YouTube, WhatsApp - highlight how our modern day technology impacts our lives, from preschoolers to mature adults. His observations underscored a profound and often troubling truth: the internet particularly our cell phones, have revolutionized our lives in ways that are both remarkable and alarming.

We are all familiar with the convenience and connectivity that smartphones provide.

The learned Mufti Saheb highlighted the darker side of this technological advancement—how these small devices in our palms have come to dictate our lives without discrimination of age, gender, faith, or ethnicity. It has now become an addiction. They command our attention, shaping our social structures, our familial relationships, our marriages, and even our spiritual lives.
Consider the pervasive influence of social media and the internet. These platforms have the power to dictate not only what we watch but also how we watch it—intensely and with undivided attention. This unwavering focus on screens diverts our attention from more meaningful interactions and pursuits. It is a silent but powerful force, altering the fabric of our daily lives.

The real-life examples cited by the insightful Imam serve as stark reminders of the consequences. Families find themselves fragmented, with members more engaged in their digital worlds than in face-to-face conversations. Children grow up in a virtual landscape, often missing out on real-world experiences and learning opportunities. Marriages suffer as spouses compete with screens for attention and emotional connection. Spiritual practices, which require focus and reflection, are increasingly interrupted by the constant ping of notifications.

The challenge of our time, as he pointed out, is how to stay away from these distractions. This is no small task, given that technology is woven into the very fabric of our existence, from the very young to the not-so-young. The allure of the digital world is strong, and the line between beneficial use and harmful dependence is often blurred.

While acknowledging the undeniable benefits of technology, such as instant communication and access to information and host of other things that make our lives comfortable, we must not overlook its potential to erode our faith, our families, our careers, and our priorities. The good side of technology is minimized when compared to the dangers it poses.

So, what can we do to regain control? The answer lies in mindful engagement. We must become conscious users of technology rather than passive consumers. Setting boundaries, such as designated screen-free times and spaces, can help restore balance. Encouraging real-world interactions and activities, especially for children, is crucial. For our spiritual well-being, dedicating uninterrupted time for prayer and reflection is essential.

In conclusion, the esteemed Imam’s khutba serves as a wake-up call. It is a call to action for all of us to reassess our relationship with technology and to make deliberate choices that prioritize our faith, our families, and our well-being. The power to change lies in our hands—let us use it wisely.

The mighty Book Qur’an says; “Remind, as reminder is beneficial to believers” (Qur’an: 51.55).
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Javed Akbar is a freelance writer based in Ajax.